Towards the end of her book, Le Ly writes, "I can only say what I myself have learned: that life's purpose is to grow. We have time in abundance--an eternity, in fact--to repeat our mistakes. We only need to correct them once, however,---to learn our lesson and hear the song of enlightenment--to break the chains of vengeance forever. If we can do this personally, no matter how many others follow, our own hearts will at least find peace."
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